Hogtied - Inescapable Bondage and Brutal Orgasms

Comments made by f_sgt_major

Date Comment Site
May 31, 2008

North12 You are right you have seen her on other sites and she did just fine. The issue here was me and all me. In life things jump up and get into the way and it tends to get you off of your intended focus. Simply put she needs more D/s then I have the time to give her at the current moment. The making of porn and the living of a D/s relationship are two separate things. One can be done in short order in an afternoon(the sites you have seen her on and had approved of). The other is a daily involvement that requires a great deal of time and effort in physical, emotional, and spiritual ways. Musicdom it would appear to me that we have the exact opposite problem. I have too little time and you appear to have to much time on your hands. I find it very unique that you could gain so much insight to a person's character from the second day of her training. You are right about one thing though, a small flogger is not worth picking up. In fact Maya loves the cane, and that is the real issue here. I have not picked one up nearly enough and she was acting out for many reasons. I would go into those reasons to try to explain them but I fear that a person who would be so bold as to make so many rude comments with out really knowing or understanding what might extend beyond what is seen would not grasp or appreciate my offering anyway. You had commented about authority during your rant. Authority much like the intelligence is internal. The only real way it can be insulted is if one takes themselves too seriously. In any D/s relationship authority is given by the sub. What authority do you or I really have with out a willing partner. There are times when a good ass beating is needed and there are times when a person's emotional needs must be tended to. Try to focus on respect , it may yield better results. If your comments came after day four I would have taken them to heart. However, having such a critical self important viewpoint after the second day tells me all I need to know about you. After 30 years of martial arts training I find it to be very close to the bd/sm lifestyle. Too many people take themselves far to seriously and the word master is used far too often. A dom, a master, a top call it what you will, all titles have the heavy responsibility of understanding that the sub or bottom or trainee are people first. People have lives that don't always blend with what might appear to be a perfect D/s lifestyle. Your last question was who does Maya think we are. My question is who do you think you are. Does being a top, or a dom give you the authority to correct a persons spelling? No, being a teacher would do that. Now there is a concept to ponder. Maybe you are already a teacher, correcting a student's spelling could have life changing implications. Much like correcting a sub's actions. If handled correctly it could be turned into a game or a part of training with a positive benefit for both parties. That is how I choose to spend my time with my sub, making life a better a better experience through learning and through accountability of ones actions. Sir you may wish keep your negative spirit and comments in context prior to placing yourself in a similar situation.

The Training Of O
May 23, 2008

Sorry domital it appears my number is safe for a while. I think you have established the fact you don't like me so rather then just bitch about it go to the forums and tell me what you don't like and i will try to improve upon it in some ways.

Device Bondage
May 22, 2008

How in the blue fuck can you get tired of Sarah, she is by far one of the most outstanding models in the biz today or ever. The amount of time she is on this and other sites should indicate her level of excellence.

Hogtied
May 22, 2008

guys sometimes I love the way they turn out and sometimes I don't. I tried something different and it did not turn out the way I have visioned it in my head. I was under the understanding that the girl girl action might not be new but might be just a bit different. Karradeus Amber thinks I am a good dom, but what really is a good dom?

Device Bondage
May 19, 2008

cajones112 not all models will do that, also that kind of contact requires special testing between two performers. Alexa does not do boy girl content. Good question though.

Hogtied
May 16, 2008

no offense taken, but please tell me what you would like to see different.

Hogtied
May 15, 2008

Solardesert Maybe you could tell me what to do to make this good bondage, but that would be based on the assumption you knew what good bondage was. Please illuminate me with your vast experience I am, always up for a critical review.

Hogtied
May 13, 2008

Satosan1 The balls weigh close to 18 lbs each so the pain is very real, they are not hollow inside, to me that makes the scenes all that much hotter. I love it when a model drools because it is just another form of control taken away from them for the session. I am normally pretty hard on my own work and I have to say I liked this one.

Hogtied
May 3, 2008

Lynnk Thanks so much for your kind words, it was not easy doing this. I have never called myself a master, don't know if I ever shall. Life really gets in the way of a 24/7 d/s relationship, we both thank you for your kindness.

The Training Of O
Apr 27, 2008

Hi Prodom good to see you here. An amateur I am not (but I don't have to tell you that), actually I was really nervous and kinda scared about the whole week. When I get nervous and scared about something I tend to get really willful and disobedient. It gives me the impression (however false) that I am in control. The fact that I have experience may be the very reason I was disobedient or willful as I tend to run on the belief system that someone has to earn my respect and obedience, just because someone says "I am Dom, You are sub" does not mean I will bow down and lick their boot until they have earned it. It probably has something to do with my Pride...and wanting to keep it. Mr. Wilcock, while I appreciate your opinion that I was trying too hard to be willful, that was completely not the case. I was actually trying my hardest to accept the situation and be as submissive and pliable as possible. I believe the first couple of days were the hardest for myself and everyone involved as I was struggling to find the submissive in myself, and having a very very hard time doing it. The acting lessons I will pass on, as my attitude, demeanor and everything about that day was probably as raw and real as I can ever remember being on set. I was actually upset with myself for not being able to hide my reluctance with the whole situation better. Ghostuncle, you hit the nail right on the head. I have a relationship with Sarge that is "I consent to the non-consensual". At first I was doing this shoot strictly for Sarge. The first day I did not want to be there, and I believe it showed. But, that is one of the very things I also loved about the shoot. The viewers get to see a girl being made to do something she really didn't want to do. Which is hot (when it's consensual). What I loved about the whole experience is that my attitude about the shoot did not stay the same as time progressed. Which proved to me once again that Sarge has my best interests at heart, and it was one of those "you will thank me later" experiences. Sometimes a girl just needs a little hard love. In the end it was a very good experience... -Xoxo Maya

The Training Of O
Apr 22, 2008

sruke2442 there was no oops involved, I could only push her as much as she would allow, sometimes we can only do so much.

Hogtied
Mar 31, 2008

It would help me if you told me what you did not like. If you simply don't like me I can't do anything about it, but if there was something you wanted to see I can do something about that. I have do four shoots for Cyd so far this was by far the most fun and the best.

Device Bondage
Mar 17, 2008

Technician, I went about as far as I was able to on this shoot. It was bar far too light for my desired taste, that being said I do not set the tempo the girls do.When you talk about porn the power exchange is not the same as one might expect it to be in the lifestyle.Had you a chance to speak to her she would have told you what a hard time she had of it that day. We can only go as far as we are allowed.

Water Bondage
Feb 26, 2008

I actually made a serious attempt to stay out of the pics more, I think it is a great deal more difficult than it may seem. That said your feedback is very much welcome.

Hogtied
Feb 3, 2008

nushin try living up to your name sake or change it to mujuki.This shoot was good, not great but good.

Hogtied